• Question: We have a similar body type, and I was wondering how you embraced your body. I have a hard time liking my body, feeling fat and like I won't be able to attract my type of man (think Chris Colfer, that's my perfect type, though I like many different types of men). This may seem shallow, but sometimes my insecurities make me really down. - fatmonicadances
  • Answer:

    I started embracing my body when I stopped caring so much about what other people think. Note that I said “so much” because all of us have that little voice in our heads that says we’re not looking good enough sometimes. I say “so much” because it’s natural to want to impress people and be looked upon in a good light. I suppose I got tired of waiting for it to just happen and started doing really awesome things for myself that people would notice like working out, getting social and putting myself out there in different communities, and not being afraid of occasionally being rejected. There’s something to be said about a man with confidence, and that’ll attract any type of guy. I never thought I would do photoshoots, and it’s not for everybody, but there are soooo many people in the world that I knew someone would like them, and lots of people do! I am proud of them, and they make me realize I’m an attractive and beautiful person. Do good things for yourself all the time :) do what makes you feel sexy and awesome. That’ll give you the confidence you need. 
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